In the end, it all comes down to this: a person goes to a psychologist, because it is lost or stuck, confused. He may feel that way or he can demonstrate that their behavior. But in any case, it is is a problem for him, it is durable for help of a psychologist. 'Lost or confused? " I hear he asked a psychologist: "What to do with anxiety, depression, panic, phobia, schizophrenia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, disobedience adolescent drug and alcohol abuse, school fears, domestic battering, sexual carelessness, etc.? " The answer – everything. This applies to individuals, families, couples, children and even teenagers who seem to revel in their bad behavior. Anyway: there is a hidden agenda, and is the behavior and feelings, which on the surface does not make much sense. A teenager who steals and gets all time buzz, as a rule, understands that while he feels good at the moment, his behavior did not lead him to anything, what would he really wanted to achieve in life (although you can never get him to say it aloud); class clown to amuse the other kids, but usually it like everyone wants to like the teacher (but he will never tell you about it), a child who is afraid of the school really wants to interact with other children at school.
But all these people in some sense, lost themselves, they need psychological help. Desires, needs, motives, and even thoughts and perceptions depend only on our own consciousness, and they influence our behavior and feelings. So , the aggressive teenager, who was sentenced by the court for medical treatment, lost and confused in much the same, how can any of us get confused. And it will carry out psychological counseling as usual, even if he does not speak During the first five sessions. The most important thing in any consultation – an opportunity for the client to speak in a safe atmosphere, the atmosphere and making bezotsenochnosti. Advice, exhortation, interpreting – all this rarely helps person to find a way out and find yourself a place in this world.